Self-worth

Self-worth is realization that you are worthy of deserving good and to be treated with fairly. To be fairly treated by others you have to treat yourself kindly , realize what you deserve and what people are giving .it is natural that individual are not good at every area of life that , why they are called human not angels the most important is recognizing yourself and accepting itself worth is our view of about our feelings, thought and behavior .how we value our selves as a human being .Fix this thing in your mind very clearly that the day you recognize your worth will be the day to find it beyond your abilities to stick by the people who does not value you  .Be selfish enough to have self worth , self love and self respect.

Many of us sacrifice our feelings our likeness our expectations , our dreams and above all our value to keep some relation in life that don’t value us the way we do sometimes we hide our emotions from own self and keep on saying pain is not Realizing self–worth or loving your does not mean that you are considering your superior to others but accept all your imperfections and take pride in abilities that you have . Always be great full for what you have right now. sometimes we lose so many things and do not cherish their presence but when we realize their value when they have gone .your relationship trust and love for yourself sets the tone who you are good and fair with the people that belongs to you .You can only love someone else when you love yourself relies your worth no one will do it for you. 

Next time when you think of precious things do not forget to own yourself in. let’s set the resolution to realizing your worth and loving what we are because we are perfect just the way we are there we are not hurt but trust me this is the part of being emotionally weak. Why we are doing this? We usually do this because we consider people more what they will say or what they will think come on! We are first responsible and accountable for ourselves we pretend pain in not there and this is how we spoil ourselves a little bit every day.

Just look at your selves once the negativity and everything bad you are gone through is just a blink of an eye .Death is not a greatest loss. The greatest loss is when you lose confidence in your life and when you settle for less. I mean why should we settle for loss when we deserve more know your worth and don’t let people take advantage of you. Avoid the people who treat you like you are on average. These people only read you in their worst time and forget you in their best Time
Life will break you down and nobody can protect you accept yourself scripts your wellbeing to please other is just so unfair with your life.

Learning from your mistakes

The only way to bring innovative and positive contribution in your life is to learn from the mistakes. The most significant life exercises we will ever dig into will be from the inappropriate choices we make. Time and experience can be spectacular instructors when you really take in an exercise from your terrible choices. Experience originates from our curriculum for living, understanding and the enhancement we make. It likewise fountainhead of misery, distress and the trials we are beset by. Optimist or pessimist  encounters are what assist us with realizing  and structure a superior feeling of judgment. Awful judgment appears to be with us longer as an lesson learned on the grounds that we truly would prefer not to continue rehashing it. Intelligence is the information you can grab from committing errors.

Evolution begins when you perceive your haste decisions and how to keep it from repeating once more. Everybody commits errors throughout everyday life, this is normal, yet how you gain from them is the manner by which you build up your judgment. The best way to counteract committing an error a subsequent time is to learn. On the off chance that you don't, you will make that equivalent mistake over and over until you are compelled to learn.

Importance of Kindness

It is very well said by someone that in this world where you can be anything be kind. Kindness is being defined as the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate.

Kindness doesn’t mean that you only need to show your kindness to other human beings. Kindness is a vast concept. We should show kindness to each and every thing that exists in this world. Everything, every minor thing in this world expect kindness and respect. Everyone is affected by act of kindness.

 We all know that life throws unexpected curve balls on our way. Everyone is going through something we don’t know about. There are a list of problems people are facing it can be health issues ,loneliness ,depression ,anxiety, financial crisis ,relationship conflicts and so on. But by  going through from all these situation kindness is something that can give you hope and hope is something that can strengthen you to walk in this race of life and overcome these obstacles.

A simple kind sentence, a gesture and an act can bring joy to other person’s life. Robert Ingersoll once said “We rise by lifting others”. and I think being kind will not give joy only to the person you are showing your considerate behavior but it also gives you inner satisfaction and happiness that yes I’m playing at least a little part in other person’s life by bringing him happiness and joy and by helping him.

So be kind to anyone, anywhere and anytime. It will definitely come back to you. And remember this that kindness is not only related to some religious faith infect it is something which comes from nature. My Allah is always kind to all of us. Kindness is one of his quality and we should feel blessed that we can have this quality too. Being kind to his people will bring his blessing to us.

Importance of Friendship

It is rightly said, “Friends are the family we choose ourselves”. It is as important to have friends as it is to have a family. Good friends help, guide and support us at every stage.

Friends give us emotional support, they help us during difficult times and make us feel special. Blessed are those who have true friends in life.

Friends form an essential part of our lives. Life becomes more enjoyable and bearable when we have good friends around. Even one real friend can bring about a positive change in our life. Here is why friends are important:

Support:
True friends are extremely supportive of each other. They support one another at various levels. They help in bringing out the best in each other by extending help when it comes to studies and other activities. My friends are always ready to share their notes with me whenever I miss out any class. This is a great help for me. They also act as an emotional support. Whenever I am down emotionally, I turn to my best friend. She knows how to calm me and support me at such a time.

Guidance:
Good friends are also our best guides. They are there to guide us at every step. Whenever I need advice regarding handling my relationships, managing my studies or participating in other activities my friends are there to guide me. They are also there to guide me whenever I break down emotionally. They help me look at the positives in life and shun the negativity.

Enjoyment:
There is no denying the fact that having friends makes life more fun and enjoyable. Being around friends is extremely fun and exciting. I love going out on trips with friends. While I enjoy family trips too however the enjoyment on trips planned with friends is simply unmatched. Partying with friends, gossiping with them for hours, going for shopping and movies with them and indulging in crazy activities that only your group can understand is all extremely fun.
Friends are an essential part of our lives. They add vibrancy to our lives. Without friends life can be quite dull and boring.

Fear of Failure

The fear of failure resists us to be successful. It is believed that if we are scared to fail, we won't fail. This is the biggest myth ever. If we fear to fail that means we do not value our learning? We do not value our experience and growth? Success is not simply a destination. The journey towards the success matters.

If we use failure to make us, it can never break us. Fear of failure does not lead us to success but make us coward. Stop us to grow. The target to achieve first position has been poured into the heads of every person since childhood. This is a totally wrong idea. Simply having the determination to peruse our happiness, goals and dreams is a massive success in itself. Do you define success as having more money and material items? Or do you define success as being happy the way you are and be grateful. 

If you had to fall here and there and fail just to achieve what you want to do in your life then so be it. Failure is not permanent. There is always a way.