Importance of Kindness

It is very well said by someone that in this world where you can be anything be kind. Kindness is being defined as the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate.

Kindness doesn’t mean that you only need to show your kindness to other human beings. Kindness is a vast concept. We should show kindness to each and every thing that exists in this world. Everything, every minor thing in this world expect kindness and respect. Everyone is affected by act of kindness.

 We all know that life throws unexpected curve balls on our way. Everyone is going through something we don’t know about. There are a list of problems people are facing it can be health issues ,loneliness ,depression ,anxiety, financial crisis ,relationship conflicts and so on. But by  going through from all these situation kindness is something that can give you hope and hope is something that can strengthen you to walk in this race of life and overcome these obstacles.

A simple kind sentence, a gesture and an act can bring joy to other person’s life. Robert Ingersoll once said “We rise by lifting others”. and I think being kind will not give joy only to the person you are showing your considerate behavior but it also gives you inner satisfaction and happiness that yes I’m playing at least a little part in other person’s life by bringing him happiness and joy and by helping him.

So be kind to anyone, anywhere and anytime. It will definitely come back to you. And remember this that kindness is not only related to some religious faith infect it is something which comes from nature. My Allah is always kind to all of us. Kindness is one of his quality and we should feel blessed that we can have this quality too. Being kind to his people will bring his blessing to us.

Fear of Failure

The fear of failure resists us to be successful. It is believed that if we are scared to fail, we won't fail. This is the biggest myth ever. If we fear to fail that means we do not value our learning? We do not value our experience and growth? Success is not simply a destination. The journey towards the success matters.

If we use failure to make us, it can never break us. Fear of failure does not lead us to success but make us coward. Stop us to grow. The target to achieve first position has been poured into the heads of every person since childhood. This is a totally wrong idea. Simply having the determination to peruse our happiness, goals and dreams is a massive success in itself. Do you define success as having more money and material items? Or do you define success as being happy the way you are and be grateful. 

If you had to fall here and there and fail just to achieve what you want to do in your life then so be it. Failure is not permanent. There is always a way.